My comments on the Marital Mystery as flashed on f.b. on September 22,2010.

Bishwanath Singh: I am happy that my friend  Kamlesh Bahukhandi has chosen the topic  marital mysteryfor our meaningful discussion. One should always bear in mind that the marriages are made in heaven and it is union of two souls. Unless, the destiny permits, he can't marry a particular lady eve though he is very much in love with her and vice-versa. The bondage of lo...ve is not a purchasable commodity in the market when one can buy on throw-way prices. The word love can refer to a variety of different feelings, states, and attitudes, ranging from generic pleasure to intense interpersonal attraction .Love can also be referred specifically to the passionate desire and intimacy of romantic love, to the sexual love of Eros to the emotional closeness of familial love, or to the platonic love that defines friendship, to the profound oneness or devotion of religious love. This diversity of uses and meanings, combined with the complexity of the feelings involved, makes love unusually difficult to consistently define, even compared to other emotional states. Love in its various forms acts as a major facilitator of interpersonal relationships and, owing to its central psychological importance, is one of the most common themes in the arts. Although the nature or essence of love is a subject of frequent debate, different aspects of the word can be clarified by determining what isn't love. As a general expression of positive sentiment, love is commonly contrasted with hate as a less sexual and more emotionally intimate form of romantic attachment, love is commonly contrasted with lust; and as an interpersonal relationship with romantic overtones, love is commonly contrasted with friendship, although other definitions of the word love may be. Love often involves caring for or identifying with a person or thing, including oneself .In addition to cross-cultural differences in understanding love, ideas about love have also changed greatly over time. All you need is love. The love is to be delighted by the happiness of another. Though, we are living in space age, but the greatest tragedy one comes across that our present generation specially most of youths have started neglecting their spouse after their marriage and start fighting with each other even on flimsy grounds like demand of dowry, infatuations towards other opposite sex and imbalance in there I.Q & lack of mutual respects and because of superiority & inferiority complex that they often suffer. All these problems must be settled down amicably amongst married couples and try to adjust to live very happily together to have blissful married life. Let us hope & pray for all the best to all married couples who could set as example to others as how to lead a very successful married life!
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Bishwanath Singh :An ideal married couple. Prabhu Ram & Sita could be set as an example.Let us join to pay our humble obeisance's to their lotus feet and seek their bliss to give wisdom to all married couple to lead a very happy married life!
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September 22,2010.